by Mariko Tamaki  I need a second to tell you this thing. Ready? There are no rules. Okay. Wait. Hold on. There are some rules. You can’t eat a grill cheese in math class. You can’t walk barefoot in places that have a sign that says you can’t walk barefoot there. Sure sure, I get that. I’m not here to get you in trouble. Allow me to clarify. There are no rules about who you can and cannot be. You think there are rules because people tell you there are rules. People say stuff like, “Girls wear make [...]